My most recent relationship which lasted about six months ended in October. It was one of those endings that felt impending for a while because something just didn’t feel right, but it’s disappointing regardless. At the end of a…
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We’ve made it to part six of the “Destructive Relationship Patterns to Avoid” series and the Clo Bare’s history of all relationships extravaganza! In this post we’ll talk about how to start dating again after trauma, learning how to…
We’ve made it to part three of the “Destructive Relationship Patterns to Avoid” series and the epic deep dive into all my past relationships! In part one we discussed dating anxiety. In part two we talked about the savior…
In my last post about destructive relationship patterns to avoid, we talked about dating anxiety, black and white thinking, and fear of commitment. Part one took us all the way through my adolescence, ending right before high school hit.…
I’ve been dating someone for a little while now, and things are going well. Which is weird. I’m constantly suspicious of his niceness and simple “what-you-see-is-what-you-get” personality. Despite everything going pretty dang great, there’s still a paranoid part of…
In my 28-years of being alive and being single through a solid chunk of it, I’ve had the pleasure of dating a variety of dudes. I’ve dated the d-bags. Dated some good guys. I’ve dated some great guys but…
Dating anxiety is a real thing, and it’s difficult to navigate in the Tinder Age where you’re just one swipe away from someone who might be a better match. Whether you’ve been single for ten years, or getting back…
1. They show you in the way that they trigger a tiny gut reaction that tells you you can’t trust them. It’s there, you can feel it in your body, even if it’s faint. That feeling tugs at you,…
We all have a love wish list, a checklist of deal breakers and deal makers we take with us when we go out on a first or second date. But do our love lists work? Clo Bare decided to…
Dating is hard. Dating is extra hard when you're attracted to douche bags. Clo Bare is no exception, but she's figuring out why her attraction to d-bags beats out her desire to date the nice guys.…
Going through trauma therapy is a lot harder than I anticipated. Dating while going through trauma therapy is impossible. I'm learning the ways in which I am the problem, and discovering how to overcome and eradicate the barriers I've…