We’ve made it to part five in the “Destructive Relationship Patterns to Avoid” series and the Clo Bare’s history of all her relationships extravaganza! In today’s post, we’re discussing fear of abandonment. If you’re just now getting to this series, I recommend heading back to “Destructive Relationship Patterns to Avoid: Part One” where I discuss dating anxiety. So far we’ve discussed dating anxiety, savior complex, choosing the wrong men, and relationship red flags. On the relationship history side we started with grade school, made our way through high school and college, and in our last post we got all the way through the China years. Now, it’s time to enter into post-China, and my mid-twenties where all the relationship patterns built up to my hunt for security, settling in relationships and fear of abandonment.

Shall we?