We’ve made it to part 4 of the “Destructive Relationships Patterns to Avoid” series and the Clo Bare’s History of all relationships extravaganza! If you haven’t read the rest of the series, I encourage you to head back to “Part One: Dating Anxiety” and work you way through the series. So far we’ve covered my dating anxiety genesis story, savior complex, and dating the wrong men while pushing away the right ones. In this post we talk about ignoring relationship red flags, dive deeper into the savior complex and how it impacted me in a very real and unhealthy way.

My last post brought us up to post-college, and in this post I dive into the China years. We cover a little bit of everything in this post, all leading up to a shit storm of the destructive patterns maelstrom that is this experience. 

So. Without further ado: The China Years.